An annual ritual for couples who don't want to rush past each other.
PactPost helps couples slow down once a year, say thank you properly, and make one or two small promises that matter.
Once a year, slow down together
Life moves fast. Between work, daily routines, and endless to-do lists, it's easy for couples to forget to pause and really see each other. The small moments of gratitude get lost in the shuffle, and the promises we mean to keep get postponed indefinitely.
That's why we created PactPost as an annual ritual—a dedicated time each year for couples to slow down, look each other in the eye, and say the things that matter most. Whether you're in the same home or navigating a long-distance relationship, this is your moment to reconnect.
Every December or January, sit down together to write a heartfelt thank-you message to each other, then agree on just 1-3 simple, realistic promises for the coming year. Not grand resolutions, but small commitments that will actually make your relationship stronger.
Two small rituals, one relationship.
A simple ritual you can try this year
Pick a quiet evening
Choose a peaceful time before or after New Year's when you won't be rushed or interrupted.
Write Thank You Cards
Each person writes a private thank-you message first, then read them aloud to each other.
Create a New Year Pact
Together, draft 1-3 simple promises you both genuinely want to keep for the coming year.
Save and revisit
Save the links or take screenshots you'll actually see again throughout the year.